tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496698320920768554.post5938984997201180914..comments2023-07-23T11:52:41.300-04:00Comments on Who Hid the Donuts?: Weight loss surgery and divorce?Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04709345711323446312noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496698320920768554.post-83563631022876644232009-03-22T21:24:00.000-04:002009-03-22T21:24:00.000-04:00Omg, Shaggs, you hit it right on the head!The prob...Omg, Shaggs, you hit it right on the head!<BR/><BR/>The problem I have is my husband is less than attentive, is not, erm... sexually attentive -- or at least to a level that I would like and find healthy and solidifying in a marriage. Couple that with me getting attention, and you're right -- it causes huge problems. I KNOW that is a big reason I gained before... if I was fat, then I could "understand" why he won't pay attention to me. :(Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04709345711323446312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496698320920768554.post-29956646986638837682009-03-22T18:42:00.000-04:002009-03-22T18:42:00.000-04:00I have heard that the divorce rate is something li...I have heard that the divorce rate is something like 55% after WLS and I can sure understand why for alot of different reasons. My unfunny husband says to come this way and he'll see you right but seriously, its a really big issue suddenly being attractive to people and put in very compromising positions. In the past I have definitely realised that alot of the reason why I got fat in the first place was a protective behaviour against men who found me attractive. Being attractive gets you hurt and sometimes abused and leads to some horrible situations. I think for us, this is going to take some working out so we dont go back down the "fat is safe" road again. Good luck girl!Shaggshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04507797587737761148noreply@blogger.com